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![]() But being left alone in bondage is something many people fantasize about and some people, like your boyfriend's bondage buddies, will actually do. That's what everybody says and, hey, I just said it too. I'm with every BDSM educator, author, and expert, BIND: never leave someone alone in bondage. Am I wrong? Doesn't everyone consider it unsafe to leave someone alone in bondage? I don't want him to play with them again. ![]() He wanted to be left alone, he thought it was sexy, he didn't get hurt, so what's the problem? But while it may have been consensual, it wasn't safe (what if there was a fire?) or sane (WHAT IF THERE WAS A FIRE?). I asked him how long he was like that and he guessed it was about 90 minutes, maybe, "however long the guys were out to dinner." It turned out that they'd left him alone! I was really upset with his bondage friends for leaving him alone-I've been heard over and over that you're never supposed to leave someone in bondage alone-but he says it was consensual. One of the pics was of him on a bondage board strapped down in a sleepsack. The last time he was showing me pictures from a bondage session we wound up having a fight. I know them and I always get to see the pictures after they play. There are two guys he plays with and that's not a problem. My boyfriend is into bondage that's way too intense for me.
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